Aesthetic Attraction: Understanding Its Nature and Influence

In the realm of human relationships and interactions, the concept of attraction is a vital cornerstone. Attraction is the invisible thread that pulls individuals toward one another. This compelling force can manifest in different forms, each having its own nuances and effects. Today, we delve into a type of attraction that often doesn’t get as much attention as others: aesthetic attraction.

What is Attraction?

At its most basic, attraction is a feeling that makes someone interested in another person. It is an innate human experience that can take on several forms. How people experience attraction can vary significantly based on a myriad of factors, such as cultural influences, personal experiences, societal norms, biological inclinations, and individual perceptions.

Different forms of attraction include:

  1. Sexual Attraction: A desire for sexual involvement with someone else.
  2. Romantic Attraction: A deep emotional attachment and desire for romantic involvement.
  3. Intellectual Attraction: Drawn to someone’s intellectual capacity, ideas, or the way they think.
  4. Emotional Attraction: Feelings of connection on an emotional level, often leading to strong bonds of friendship.
  5. Aesthetic Attraction: Attraction to someone based on how they look, not necessarily in a sexual or romantic context.

Defining Aesthetic

The term ‘aesthetic’ is derived from the Greek word ‘aisthetikos’, which means ‘perceptible by the senses’. It refers to the appreciation of beauty and the pleasing characteristics of objects, experiences, or individuals. Aesthetic appeal is subjective and differs from person to person, given the variance in individual preferences and societal standards of beauty.

Understanding Aesthetic Attraction

Aesthetic attraction is an often-understated form of attraction where an individual finds another person aesthetically pleasing or attractive without necessarily experiencing a romantic, sexual, or emotional desire toward them. It’s the kind of attraction that makes you appreciate a person’s appearance in the same way you would appreciate a work of art. It’s not about wanting to be with them or wanting them; it’s more about recognizing and appreciating their physical beauty.

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Aesthetic attraction stands apart from other forms of attraction as it doesn’t require any desire for closeness, intimacy, or possession. You can find someone aesthetically pleasing without feeling the need to interact with them. This form of attraction can occur regardless of a person’s sexual orientation, romantic inclination, or emotional state.

How to Be Aesthetically Pleasing

Becoming aesthetically pleasing is largely a subjective process as people’s preferences for aesthetic appeal vary. However, there are some universal practices that can enhance one’s aesthetic attraction. Here are a few tips:

  1. Personal Grooming and Hygiene: Cleanliness and a well-groomed appearance often enhance aesthetic appeal. Regular self-care practices such as maintaining personal hygiene, grooming, and dressing appropriately can significantly enhance one’s aesthetic attraction.
  2. Health and Fitness: Staying in good health and maintaining physical fitness often contribute to aesthetic attraction. It’s not about adhering to unrealistic societal standards but more about feeling good about oneself and displaying a vibrant, healthy glow that naturally draws others.
  3. Self-confidence: Confidence has a strong aesthetic appeal. Being comfortable in your skin, showing self-assuredness, and displaying positivity can make you more attractive to others.
  4. Personal Style: Developing a personal style that reflects your personality can enhance your aesthetic appeal. Whether it’s your fashion sense, your decor, or how you carry yourself, a unique style can be aesthetically pleasing.
  5. Kindness and Compassion: While aesthetic attraction is largely about physical appearance, showing kindness and compassion can make people perceive you as more aesthetically pleasing. A warm, genuine smile can be the most attractive feature of a person.


Several apps can help you explore aesthetic attraction further, improve your understanding of your own aesthetic tastes, and enhance your aesthetic appeal:

  1. Pinterest: A platform for sharing and discovering new interests by posting images or videos to your own or others’ boards.
  2. Facetune: A photo editing app that can enhance your understanding of aesthetics by allowing you to experiment with different looks.
  3. Canva: While Canva is primarily a design tool, it can help you understand color theory, balance, and other aesthetic principles that you can apply to your personal style.
  4. Instagram: This social media platform isn’t just for sharing photos. It’s a vast resource for aesthetic inspiration from around the world.
  5. Calm: A mindfulness and meditation app. Confidence and peace of mind are critical to aesthetic appeal, and maintaining mental health can contribute positively.
  6. MyFitnessPal: This app helps maintain physical fitness and health, aspects that can influence aesthetic appeal.
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Other Resources

  1. Books
    • “Attraction Explained: The science of how we form relationships” by Viren Swami: This book delves into the science behind attraction, providing a comprehensive understanding of its different forms.
    • “The Art of Seduction” by Robert Greene: Although it focuses more on romantic and sexual attraction, it provides insightful perspectives on aesthetic appeal.
    • “Beauty Sick: How the Cultural Obsession with Appearance Hurts Girls and Women” by Renee Engeln: A profound book that explores societal beauty standards and their impacts.
  2. Websites and Blogs
    • Psychology Today: Offers various articles exploring the intricacies of attraction.
    • A platform that explores different types of attraction including aesthetic attraction, particularly in the context of the asexual community.
    • Thought Catalog: A digital youth culture magazine dedicated to stories and ideas from various perspectives, including those on attraction and aesthetics.
  3. Research Journals
    • Journal of Personality and Social Psychology: Publishes original papers in all areas of personality and social psychology, including studies on attraction.
    • Journal of Social and Personal Relationships: Provides articles on social and personal relationships, often covering different aspects of attraction.

Remember, aesthetic attraction, like all forms of attraction, is a deeply personal and subjective experience. The aim isn’t to conform to societal standards of beauty but to understand your preferences, feel comfortable in your skin, and appreciate the beauty in others.

In conclusion, aesthetic attraction is a fascinating concept that underscores the diverse ways we experience attraction. It allows us to appreciate the beauty in others without the pressure of additional feelings or desires like a painter appreciating a sunset or a poet lost in the beauty of a verse. Understanding this form of attraction broadens our perception of beauty and challenges the traditional confines of attraction, enabling us to celebrate the aesthetic diversity of human beings.

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Alex Koliada, PhD, is a well-known doctor. He is famous for his studies of ageing, genetics and other medical conditions. He works at the Institute of Food Biotechnology and Genomics NAS of Ukraine. His scientific researches are printed by the most reputable international magazines. Some of his works are: Differences in the gut Firmicutes to Bacteroidetes ratio across age groups in healthy Ukrainian population []; Mating status affects Drosophila lifespan, metabolism and antioxidant system [Science Direct]; Anise Hyssop Agastache foeniculum Increases Lifespan, Stress Resistance, and Metabolism by Affecting Free Radical Processes in Drosophila [Frontiersin].
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